The longer I live in my body the more amazed I am at how connected my mind and body is.  So many women who are  bothered by hot flashes and even urge incontinence do not realize that they may actually have some control over some of their symptoms by training their minds.  There is good scientific evidence that this is so.  Practice the exercise below during a hot flash or with urgency to urinate.  Concentrate on relaxing your abdominal muscles.  Don’t give up if you don’t see results right away.  Like anything, it takes practice to achieve effective performance.  It is not hard but takes just a little persistence. Good luck.

Paced respiration

With regular paced respiration, women reportedly achieve a noticeable drop in the number of hot flashes they have, as well as a lower average skin temperature (used to measure hot flashes).

Paced respiration takes practice. Try to do paced respiration twice daily, for 15 minutes at a time. Also, when you first feel a hot flash coming on, stop what you are doing, find a quiet place, and practice paced respiration until you are feeling comfortable again.

• Sit in a comfortable, quiet place.
• As you breathe, keep your rib cage still. You will be lowering and raising your diaphragm to fill and empty your lungs.
• Inhale for 5 seconds, pushing your stomach muscles out.
• Exhale for 5 seconds, pulling your stomach muscles in and up.
• Repeat this cycle of breathing until you feel calm and relaxed or your time is up.

To reduce stress, you can also use paced respiration for 1 to 2 minutes in the middle of a busy day.

written by Deborah McBain, CNM MSN