When a post menopausal woman comes in to my clinic complaining of vaginal dryness or pain with intercourse, I get excited.  No, I am not a sicko.  I am excited because I  know I can usually fix the problem and make a big difference in her quality of life.  That  is very satisfying.  Women are very grateful and I become their hero. So what is going on “down there”?  Well, I’ve got bad news and good news.

The bad news is that unless you are taking hormones, sooner or later it is going to happen.  It is called vaginal atrophy.  It means the skin and tissue in the vaginal area gets thinner and more fragile.  It is caused by the decrease in estrogen which occurs during menopause.   It can cause a feeling of dryness, itching and pain with sexual activity.  The good news is that there is help for this problem.

Even women who may not be appropriate candidates for systemic estrogen may be able to safely use local estrogen creams with good result.  There are many estrogen recepters in the vaginal area which means that a very little amount of estrogen is needed to get relief from symptoms.  Because the amount needed is small, the side effects and risks are small as well.  Often just a small pearl size amount of estrogen cream a couple times a week is all that is needed to maintain vaginal  tissue health.  Other factors which contribute to vaginal health are important to consider too. 

• It is important to check for and treat any vaginal infections like bacterial vaginosis, candida vaginitis (yeast) or even sexually transmitted diseases.  Treating these conditions may clear up symptoms.
•  Maintaining sexual activity of any kind helps  good blood flow and lubrication, keeping vaginal tissues healthy.  I call it the “ use it or lose it” factor.   Widows or divorced women who may enter a sexual relationship after many years of abstinence are often greatly dismayed with their discomfort and greatly relieved that there is effective help for their problem.
• Over- the- counter vaginal moisturizers and lubricants can offer a good starting point for help with dryness  or discomfort during intercourse.  There are many good products on the shelves of any drug store.  If after trying these, you still are not getting relief, see your physician or practitioner.  They may end up being your hero.

written by Deborah McBain, CNM MSN